A few days after announcing school was going to resume face-to-face lessons, the decision was reversed; an outbreak of the virus at a garment factory north of Colombo bred 1,600 cases in the span of a week and leaked into the community. School was not only not going to be face-to-face, it was going back to full online; not the hybrid model, one week on, one week off the kids had previously participated in. After school activities, including swimming, were also set to resume. These, too, were postponed or canceled.
A Halloween party was canceled. My office was then going to host kids for door to door trick-or-treating in our office building. Canceled. Door decorating contest. Canceled. We planned a last minute trip to Weligama, the beach, to go surfing and fishing and relaxing by the crash of ocean waves. Canceled.
I think both Elise and I kind of knew another government curfew was inevitable. So far, this curfew is limited to the Western Province which includes Colombo. We’ve been told it will be lifted on Monday, but the last curfew was instituted on a holiday weekend, too. That curfew lasted 10 weeks. We’re hoping for the best while preparing for the worst.
In anticipation, Sam created is own quarantine activity, freezing LEGO men and action figures in ice to be chipped free later with small picks and screwdrivers like a paleontologist liberating a frozen mastodon from an Arctic glacier.
Virtual PE
Friday morning, Sam woke in a horrendous mood. He’s becoming more the moody teen. Wonderful when the mood is a good one. He has the capacity to fill the entire house with a noxious cloud of gloom when the mood is boorish, like a sinkhole swallowing the house. I have always said he has the capacity to be the kindest, most gentle person I know. The converse is also true. He was looking forward to going to Weligama the most; he’s become quite fascinated with fishing.
I have a long history with fishing. My dad took us fishing all the time when I was a kid. We’d go out into the Atlantic in his boat, triple outboard motors now. Maybe only twin outboards then. Straight out the Jupiter inlet. There were no seas he was afraid of, angling the bow into the incoming swells at just the right angle, having a prescient knowledge of when to speed the boat up and when to slow it done at just the right moment to insert the hull between the sine wave of the incoming tide and ride the waves out. It was though he spoke to the ocean, and the ocean spoke back, spraying salt into our faces as the tan stretch of sand receded behind us and the vast expansive of deep violet ocean opened up before us.
I grew up fishing with my dad, but never learning to fish. My dad may have been a micromanager. Or maybe we were truly so inept at fishing he really did have to do everything for us. I caught a lot of fish, but never became very knowledgeable in the language of lures, line, filaments, and weight. I could bait a hook, but never knew the strategy behind fishing, the why of a certain bait in a certain spot at a certain time of day dropped at a certain depth. I could pull a fish (big ones, too) from the briny deep, but always pulled it straight into my dad’s waiting arms where he unhooked the fish, threw it in the cooler, and baited and dropped my line for me.
I think he enjoyed providing the service, like a charter fisherman. But I never really learned how to fish. And, thus, my interest in fishing waned because I could never go fishing on my own. I didn’t know how. And I never had the proper equipment. Or a boat.
It seems the fishing bug skips generations, because Sam is obsessed. But I lack the knowledge to help him. He’s been researching fishing in reference books and shopping for fishing gear online. We ordered him a rod and reel and some fishing line, hoping it will all work together. I tried asking my dad for suggestions, but the recommendations provided in terse, sparsely worded emails written like haiku were difficult to decipher.
On some level, I know it is not about the outcome. Though I do think Sam would be disappointed if he never caught a fish, I am able to take him fishing. My interest is not lacking. I would love nothing more than to sit on the beach or the rocks with him watching him for hours cast his line into the sea. I just won’t be able to offer much in the way of instruction. We’ll have to figure it out on our own.
But this adventure, sadly, is postponed indefinitely. Another victim of the global pandemic.
Tennis lesson
This curfew started rough, but only a day or two in, we are already finding a rhythm to the day, though we are looking forward to seeing what Monday will bring. Will the curfew lift? If only for a few hours or days? Or will need come late Sunday night — as before — the curfew has been extended?