I have written before that India
is a complex place. Frankly this is what makes India India. Elise and I agreed
this past weekend that India is confusing. It messes with your mind. One
instance you’re saying to yourself, “India is amazing! It’s wonderful!” The
next you’re muttering, “What the f---!” Only to wake up the next morning, the
morning call to prayer carrying over the river, the man with the warm smile at
his vada cart on the corner, and think, “This place is amazing! It is
wonderful!” all over again.
We just returned from a weekend
voyage south to the old French colonial town of Pondicherry. It was only our
second time out of Chennai, and a long time coming. Elise and I have also
collectively decided we need to get out of dodge more…for our own sanity, if
nothing else.
Our last morning in town we had
breakfast at a quaint Parisian style, outdoor café called Café des Artes. Elise
ordered a crepe. I tried to order a croquet, but got a crepe instead, but
remained equally pleased. We both ordered cappuccinos.
I was going to order waffles for
the kids, but didn’t know if two would be sufficient for three kids or if each
kid needed their own waffle. The kids’ appetites are growing prodigiously. I
honestly never know how much food to order for them. We alternate between meals
out where they barely eat a thing, between meals out where six orders of
buttered noodles barely make a dent in their hunger.
I asked the waitress, “Is the
waffle big?”
“Yes.”
“Is it enough for two kids?”
“Yes.”
“Or is it enough for one kid?”
“Yes.”
“Is the waffle small? About this
size?” I held up my hand to approximate the dimensions of a brick.
“Yes.”
ARRGH!!!!
A week or so ago, I went to the canteen at work for
breakfast. The canteen starts serving breakfast at 8:30. It was 9:20, and they
were out of food. I flew into a rage disproportionate to the circumstances, but
indicative of the level of frustration that can be experienced on a daily basis,
alternating with equal doses of amazement and wonder.
I came back to my office and erupted, “This is bull$h!t!” It
is unlike me to show my frustration in public, and much rarer to do so among my
co-workers. It showed me that I had been simmering longer than I was
consciously aware…and that I was more comfortable venting to my co-workers than
I knew.
That being said, I live a sheltered existence compared to
Elise. I get up, race around the house for an hour making breakfast and getting
school lunches packed, but after that, I spend most of my day in my sheltered
office, far, far away from India. Elise spends her entire day navigating through
pockets of wonder and frustration, and I need to give her more credit that I do.
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